I separated from my husband in 2005 after a thirty year relationship, twenty of which we were married. We were legally divorced in 2006, it took until September 2007 to agree upon a financial settlement and until December 2008 to settle a financial dispute with my divorce solicitor. I had no idea until I was getting divorced myself just how difficult this process can be. It is like running a marathon. You have to be physically fit and pace yourself to get to the finish line in one piece. They say that you suffer more stress when a partner dies but I disagree. When someone dies they did not stop loving you, they did not choose to be with someone else and you did not have to go through a process of disentangling your lives. Despite all these difficulties, this was one of the most empowering times of my life. I found many ways of dealing with the stress and emotions, I had time to rediscover who I truly am and I started to use the Law of Attraction to create a future I could be excited about.

In the early stages of my divorce I felt like I was about to jump off the edge of a cliff. In my heart I knew I wanted to jump and I also knew I had a parachute but I was still very frightened of making that jump. I persuaded myself that it was ok to have one glass of wine each evening to steady my nerves because I was going through a bad time. I could even justify drinking 2 glasses each evening for a while but it was too easy to progress from 2 glasses to a whole bottle. Lets be honest, once you have taken 3 glasses out of the bottle there is so little left you really do have to finish the lot, don’t you? At this point I realised that when you go through a divorce you have to make some of the most important decisions of your life and therefore I really needed to be bright eyed and bushy tailed! This was my turning point. I looked around me and saw so many women relying on alcohol or antidepressants to get them through and to my horror they were wearing their need for these crutches like a badge of honour. I felt passionately then as I do now that there is another way where you can stop being a victim of your divorce and start being empowered by it.

It is a great time when you are going through a divorce to learn how the Law of Attraction works. It is time to put you at the top of your list of priorities without feeling guilty. It is time to decide who you want to be and what you want to do with the rest of your life. It is time to decide what is important to you. It is time to get excited about your future and all the wonderful possibilities that are now opening up to you. It is your choice. Do you want to feel like a Depressed, Isolated Victim OR do you choose to take Control and become Empowered?

I can offer you emotional support as you go through your divorce. I can guide you as you learn how to put the Law of Attraction into action. I will share in your joy as you become stronger and praise your success as you too become passionate about the life you are choosing to create and starting to live.

For help through your divorce call 01296 670 584 or email me now.